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No one posts on my topics anymore. XD So don't feel bad - I'm a lot more of a loser.

If you want, I could sticky your topics...

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well that would be nice and I'd apperatice that but others might be suspicous of only my topics getting sticked I'll let you know if I want a topic stickeyed or not.

-- Edited by loonaticfan at 10:49, 2007-04-11

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All right then. :)

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loonaticfan wrote:

Well heres the thing there's this other forum that I post on besides this one and every time i post something everyone there compltley ignores it and whenever i post a new topic no one even bothers to post on it they either just ignore it or start a new topic in the same place to make sure everyone else doesn't post either.Also when ever I post on an existing topic people ignore that same one for several days and then post on it after that like I had never said anything,as if they were waiting untill the scent of me wore out.Its like my post are deflecting eveyone else some how even when some people make the most STUPIDEST topics people still post on them but with me no even though 50 people have viewed it not on single post and Im starting to feel left out like they dont care what i say or post,cause they just ignore it,nine year olds post too but they get llike 139 posts while I get none what should I do.cry

-- Edited by loonaticfan at 10:31, 2007-04-11



hmmmmm...... what sort of topics have you posted? I'd be interested in looking at them, maybe give a post or two!  

and its sort of strange. many topics have more people view them then posting stuff up in them. mine included! But there is ALOT of topics here and sometimes it just takes awhile to get through them all.





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loonaticfan wrote:

Well heres the thing there's this other forum that I post on besides this one and every time i post something everyone there compltley ignores it and whenever i post a new topic no one even bothers to post on it they either just ignore it or start a new topic in the same place to make sure everyone else doesn't post either.Also when ever I post on an existing topic people ignore that same one for several days and then post on it after that like I had never said anything,as if they were waiting untill the scent of me wore out.Its like my post are deflecting eveyone else some how even when some people make the most STUPIDEST topics people still post on them but with me no even though 50 people have viewed it not on single post and Im starting to feel left out like they dont care what i say or post,cause they just ignore it,nine year olds post too but they get llike 139 posts while I get none what should I do.cry

-- Edited by loonaticfan at 10:31, 2007-04-11



That happens to me, too. Whenever I post a topic about something, many people ignore it and when I post fanart or fanfiction, nobody likes to comment. I didn't even get one comment on any of my Loonatics pictures. I barely get any reviews and only two to three people have commented on my character analysies. So, I feel your pain. I can't help but, I'm sorry to hear that that is happening to you.

 



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loonaticfan, not at all meaning to provoke any offence with what i say here, i don't know what kind of things you say on this other forum, but sometimes if you don't say anything of great interest or you say very little, then people won't have a response for you. You've kinda gotta say things that will warrrant a response if you know what i mean. Just because people don't seem to reply to your posts doesn't necessarily mean that they're deliberately ignoring you and being rude. But sometimes, they just genuinely don't have anything further to say. Or sometimes they may not understand what you're saying if you're going off a topic or anything. Generally speaking, the people i see that don't seem to get much response on forums are the ones that others can't seem to relate to so well. You kinda have to make yourself relatable and sociable to others, not that i'm saying that you're completely unrelatable loonaticfan. I hope you can understand what i'm saying here. If you can, it may help you.

Most topics on forums will always have a larger number of views than written posts. This is natural. It takes people time and concentration to think of messages to write in posts. Viewing is easily done. So if we bear that in mind, we can perhaps understand why there aren't always as many posts as there are views in a topic.

Finally, i'd like to say that it's always better to not expect responses from others all the time. If you feel you have a significant point to make, then you're welcome to make it, but you must be prepared to not always get lots of responses. Though i admit it must be disheartening if you are frequently unresponded to. But if this is the case, then perhaps it's time to look at your manner of communication and the way you come across to people online.

And Akira, your area sounded nice until you mentioned chavs! LOL!

-- Edited by Black Oracle at 08:05, 2007-04-12

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I see Thank You Black and the rest of you have been very helpful,so say i were to start a topic about I dont know what you guys do besides post on this forum I could get some responses and I understand that soometimes people might not have any reason to reply but if people are resopnding to topics like (and this is on that other website) "Who thinks John Leway is cool" then Please 1 response is all i ask.But thanks again.smile



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Well i'm not sure who John Leway is.

If people don't respond to a topic at all, they just might not be finding the topic of great interest to talk about. Try participating in other threads more and start chatting to others through those, then later when you start your own threads, you'll hopefully have a better idea of the sort of things that people like to talk about and they'll repay the attention you gave them in other topics earlier!

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hm i feel sad because 2 of my friends shae and amanda joined the populer group and i thinks ive lost myfriends cause they never speak to me or email me anymore....

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Well, there are a variety of reasons why they could have done that.

One reason could be that they want to be popular and they just want to be around more people.

Another reason could be because they don't want to get picked on by other people. And they feel that if they join the popular group, then they're safe. Do you often get picked on by other people? If yes, that reason could be possible. 

But that doesn't neccessarily mean that the choice they've made is right. Sure being popular maybe alright because you got a lot of people around you and maybe cooler than other people (no offence to you), but what if the people your friends joined are not nice people. Most of the popular people at my school were stuck up snobs who powdered themselves with make-up. But that's only because they want to show other people they have more authority over students than anyone else. Not teachers obviously, but you get my drift.

But let me just ask you a question: How many friends do you have? And how many friends do the popular people have? If you find you have more friends than the popular people, it's because of kindness and respect. There was an incident that happened a long time ago that I'd rather not explain in full detail. My dad asked me the same question whilst the problem was sorting itself out. He asked me how many friends I've got compared to the two bullies that got me into trouble. I said that there was only one other friend the bullies got while I said a list of people. He told me that I had more friends because I respected them and that I was kinder to them than what the bullies were. It made me realise that I was more popular than I realised. I guess I was secretly well respected by other classmates because they didn't expect me to stand up for my friends the way that I did.

So you maybe even more popular than you think. Don't let that bother you. I'm not saying that those two aren't your friends because you say they are and I will respect that. But try talking to them first. If they're not being nice to you, hang around with your other friends who like you for a while and don't worry. Should your other two friends come back to you, you probably know why. But as long as you are kind and respectful to your friends, then they will treat you back the same way as you do them.

Hope this advice is good to you. I'm not normally good at giving advice.



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Screw high school stereotypes! -shakes fist in air- STAND FOR CREATIVITY AND ORIGINALITY!

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In agreement with Akira's final note up there, be a friend to others and they will be a friend back to you! It's a good principle to live by!

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Black Oracle wrote:

In agreement with Akira's final note up there, be a friend to others and they will be a friend back to you! It's a good principle to live by!




It's sorta like the 'Treat others the way you wanna be treated' saying right? But instead it is 'Be a friend to others and they'll be one back'. Both good principles to live by!biggrin



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thanks guys you're a greatest....

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Do unto others...as...you would thyself? Crap, I forgot it again...

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my dad got sick to nigt and had to go to the hospitle si im worride

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Oh dear kari! I hope your dad will feel better soon! I'm sure the hospital folk will take good care of him! Try not to worry too much!

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I agree with Black Oracle. Your dad's going to be fine. Don't worry. He'll be alright.

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Ya kari. Everything will turn out fine. My best wishes for your dad's recovery!smile

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thanks guys turns out nothing serios was wrong with him

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See. aww Told ya he'll be fine.

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there is one thing that will always bother me is people these days always seem so cold hearted. You ever heard the saying "Cold hands,warm heart" those words pretty much describe me. The thing that is a little depressing is everybody says that im to old fashioned dont know why people cant exept anyone for who they are not everyone is perfect (heck i know im not) and the other thing that bothers me is popularity and looks. People base ALOT off of that these days and its sad because looks and popularity are not whats gonna get you through life. I would go on but then this would become a rant anyway sorry if this seems kinda usless or inapropiate but ya i just needed to get it off of my chest

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Nah. Tis okay.

I'm having a bit of a situation now. Yesterday I told my dad that I dropped French as an A-Level and he stormed out of the room. When I asked him if he was angry at me for dropping it, he that that he was very angry with me that I did it and he told me that I was an idiot and that I'll regret not doing it.

The thing is that (1), I found it really hard and I might fail at it from my exams that I've recently done. And (2), I found the lesson so tedious and boring and I never liked doing it as an GCSE as well. And the only reason I took it was because my parents said that I was very good at it and it was the highest bloody grade in my stupid GCSE results. I'm not sure whether he's still disappointed with me or not. But I bet he's still angry with me for not continuing with it. But why do something that I hate and that I'm never gonna enjoy ever?

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Seems to me your father`s too overbearing. Maybe your other grades are lower because you`ve been distracted or a little stressed by the French lessons? Your old man just needs to cool it a little. Maybe he was monsieur linguiste in his day, but he shouldn`t bear down on his own daughter just because she wanted to discontinue something she hated and thus would never truly master.

Now, if it was something a little more appliable such as math or social studies, then I`d have to concede a point here. But, something as optional as French need not be required to become successful, and in this case dropping it will indeed help one become successful.

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No. I'm not stressed with my other lessons. Performance studies, music tech and general studies are okay. He did go to Germany many times but I don't think he's the master of foreign languages. I think I get the French speaking ability from my mum. She was good at French.

Apparently, my teacher says that if I have a GCSE or A-Level in at least one foreign language then I'm more likely to get to university than some one without a foreign language certificate.

But thanks for the advice.

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I'd wager that a lot of his anger stems from the fact that you dropped the class without discussing it with him first.  Parents hate being left out of major decisions where their children are concerned.  That's certainly the case with my parents.  He'll get over it eventually.

I don't know about the UK, but most teachers over here don't know squat about what universities are looking for in students.  We were told a lot of things were important whille we were in high school (fairly standard stuff that gets fed to students everywhere), but I have since found out that universities couldn't care less about most of them.  Don't stress over it.

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I think your dad needs a chill pill -takes out a chill pill-

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aww Thanks.

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What are your other GCSEs?

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Well I'm doing A-Levels now but I'll tell you what I got for my GCSEs.

French: B

Science (Double Award): C and C

Maths: D

English Language: C

English Literature: D

Drama: C

Religious Education: C

Physical Education: Pass
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What? No As?

I'm Sorry, I didn't mean to sound rude. It's just that I come from an ambitious family and my parents would have been POed if I didn't get three As.
I did get the 3 As. The universities are quite demanding......

Anyway, don't be upset. Can you try retaking them?



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Hi guys. I'm in tears at the moment cos I got my AS Levels and they do suck. Here's what I got:

French

Reading and Listening - U (Failed)
Writing - Failed
Speaking - D

Performance Studies

Contextual Studies Essay - U (Failed)
Performance Realisation - B
Language of Performing Arts - C

General Studies - E (Just passed it so I was lucky.)

ICT - U (I failed all three of my topics so no point in doing it seprately.)

Music Tech - U (I only failed cos our teacher sucked and he left everything at the last minute.)
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But the real reason I am in tears now is cos my parents are ashamed of me. No "You tried your hardest" or "At least you tried". It was "I'm very disappointed and ashamed at you and that you will regret it later on in life". I had to cry on my sister's shoulders and I'm not planning to go jamming tonight cos they'll only give me dirty looks all night. I am still in tears but I feel like I've failed everyone and I too am starting to burst into tears again at my own worthlessness.

I'm just so sorry to everyone that I've failed them.

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*Pats Akira on back* petting.gif Don't cry on me now

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That`s horrible...your parents, I mean. What they`re doing is wrong. By pushing you too hard, they caused their own daughter to slip up due to stress. You`re not the problem Akira, they are. You should be disappointed in them. If they`d just let you relax and let you feel like there`s no pressure, then you might`ve been able to concentrate better and make the grade they wanted.

They should be proud that you simply tried to please them. What they`re being is selfish and short-sighted. You tried your best under their unforgiving scrutiny, and if they`re going to be ashamed at anyone, it should be themselves for pushing their daughter so hard.

And if you ask me, your parents care more about your accomplishments than your happiness. So forget about impressing them. The only ones who will regret it someday will be them.

Don`t give up, Akira. Remember these words:

It`s never too late for success. You don`t need top grades to find happiness. So long as your heart remains set on your goal, your dreams await you. Just use common sense, bear in mind your resources, and don`t be afraid to learn at your own pace. Where there`s a will, there`s a way. Whether you find that way is up to you, and no-one else.

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Thanks guys. I'm not saying they're mean but it's just the way they just said that is just upsetting. And they didn't even say it to my face. They just done it on a text to my older sister cos I didn't have my phone with me. And that was the reason why I didn't want to see themin the evening incase they talked about it to me and how disappointed they are. Thanks again.

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I'm sorry for keep burting into tears like this but I don't know what it is with my parents.

First of all my dad asks me whether I wanted to go jamming or not. I said I would as so as I got back on the computer to finish something off cos he was on it. As soon as he was off, he and my sis was immediately off jamming. It was only a small thing I told him but he was like "oh why won't you come". I would have gone if he had just let me finish something off after talking to his friend on an IM chat thing. So they left without me.

My mum had to go to darts and then saw me in the house saying why I didn't go with Dad. I explained to her clearly but then she said that I didn't feel like a lot of things and that if I didn't go then no-one will ask me if I could play for a band with them. She also said I failed my exams and that I wouldn't be able to go to university if I wanted to. Part of the reason I failed was because of jamming! Since arriving late into the morning at night gave me lack of sleep, I couldn't do them properly! Plus some of the lessons I did was hard and my music tech teacher left everything til the last minute didn't help either! So I'm now in tears because of the lack of encouragement I'm getting. None. Now I'm even questioning whether I am gonna be successful in life. Whether I am such a failure. I'm sorry for being like this but I'm just feeling so depressed right now.



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[Oh, wow...]

[I can see why you're getting depressed.  Your parents should be encouraging you more and nurturing your abilities and intellect.  They shouldn't be saying that you won't be able to go to a University; that's not what parents do.  Parents are supposed to tell their kids that they will make a difference in the world and that their children will go to good colleges when they grow up.]

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Thanks. I'm feeling okay now. Thing are sort of normal... by our standards. Thanks for the comfort.

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Hmm, It looks abit like this good thread is dead... has'nt had a post since august. Well I have something to say anyway. Over the time I've met alot of people with problems and by giving them a listening ear I've made them feel much better.

I'm a good listener and I have a very good understanding of things. I'm reliable, sturdy, and loyal.
I've learned that sometimes people with problems who want someone to talk with don't feel comfortable with most people and that sometimes means me, but im an excellent choice. I have never broken a secret.

If anyone wants to talk about something thats nagging at them, whatever it is you can talk to me about it. I'll listen to anyones troubles.

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A while ago at school,I always ate with ariana and her friends,but one day
ariana pulled me aside and told me not to hang out with them any-more
because Im creepy,(and Im always nice and kind to everyone),so I eat
by my self at lunch,cause no one eats with me or wants to be my friend
at my new school,(well theres tasha and zack I think)...IM very sad.......

-- Edited by kari bunny at 16:36, 2007-12-27

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kari bunny wrote:

A while ago at school,I always ate with ariana and her friends,but one day
ariana pulled me aside and told me not to hang out with them any-more
because Im creepy,(and Im always nice and kind to everyone),so I eat
by my self at lunch,cause no one eats with me or wants to be my friend
at my new school,(well theres tasha and zack I think)...IM very sad.......

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Why would she say your creepy? Are you sure no one wants to be your friend?

 



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I can relate... I used to be one of those kids who just sat around by themselves. It wasn't until a while after I joined the Tech Crew that I had a sort of actual "lunch table" - and there isn't even a proper lunch table where we eat.

Join some clubs and make some new friends! Some of them are bound to have your lunch period. Joining the Tech Crew at my school certainly scrapped my problem of having no one to sit with during lunch, and about 4/5ths of my friends are in the Tech Crew.

New schools are never much fun... Especially if you switch right when you get into high school. I mean, it's like having to start everything all over again. But participating in extracurricular activities (haha! "Extracurricular" still cracks me up.) sure helps in making friends.

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Then again I'm not much of a friend-maker so I cant help you more than oddity can I think.

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thanks....ok heres my new problem,I get bullied like everyday in school,BY MATT ARG...
anyway my ankel got hert bad and he tries to trip me called me ugly and stuff and then
cody who was in LOVE with me but I told him,off called me the creep in the shadows,not
to mention everyone else cept for ethen,tasha,and keshaw(sp?)...Today in art cody
made fun of me so i was sitting alone and this kid Zack came up to my drawing and
said EARTHQUAKE,and started shaking it,when I looked at him,he said Sorry and
walked away,well before i looked at him I was really sad and hurt...so yep I NEED
ADVICE and hugs...

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Kari. There's one thing you've got to know about boys your age. They're all ****s! There are a rare few boys who are actually nice. But that's just at least 2%. The other 98% are motherf*****g, idiotic, bullying, b******s. I had very similar experiences to you. Believe me. They're so stupid. I know you're gonna tell me "I've heard it all before" or "I've done it but they keep doing it" but tell a teacher. Be persistent and you'll get what you want and those idiotic boys will get what they truly deserve. biggrin A really good beating!



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I was going to say what Akira did, but shoot.

Well you could get a gun and... nah bad idea.

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I be annoy-yed.

Here's how my brain works:
1)If I wake up late, I'm in a bad mood to begin with.
2)Absolutely, under NO circumstances, talk to me before I've had my coffee. (I don't care if you're a paramedic telling me my mother has been in a car wreck, wait until I'm done with my coffee, unless you WANT to die.)
3)Do not talk to me until at least an hour after I get up, for I will bite and scratch (not literally), and am generally unpleasant.
4)Don't talk to me if I'm in a bad mood (unless I say something that requires a response).
5)Don't talk to me if I'm sick.
6)When talking, don't ramble on for 15 minutes. State your point. And don't say the same thing 3 times in the same sentence. This is worse than rambling for 15 minutes.
7)I don't care about anyone else's business, unless they are friends. I still have my own biz to take care of.
8)Unless asking your advice, don't you DARE tell me what I am and what I'm not. This is equivalent to breaking rule 2, and I will ALWAYS find a way to turn your statement against you.

If you just follow these few rules, I'm at your beck and call (except at the times given above). My grandmother breaks these rules CONSTANTLY. (Well, 2 is a newly broken one.) I am an absolute HELLION, especially upon just waking up. And this isn't the biggest problem. When I get stressed or worn down, my memory gets particulary bad, to the point I forget to close things, or put lids on, etc. Breaking the above rules (which I think are quite fair and easy to follow, they're not THAT demanding) is a good way to do that.

The biggest problem is 6,7, and 8. 6 and 7 seem to be her favorites, she'll tell you the same thing mulitple times, AND ramble on. My uncle and all gave me this computer I'm on now, and he said the screen was 17". IT AIN'T. It's only 12. Well, my mom has a bigger monitor, and asked me if I wanted it. All I said was "If you want to". I did not say yes, but I wasn't saying no, either. I get up at 11, but yesterday my phone failed to wake me, and she got me up 30 minutes late. Rule 1. (Waking me up doesn't count as breaking a rule.)

I'm stirring my coffee, when she damn comes in there, naggin' me about the damn monitor. (She doesn't want me to have it, explain next paragraph.)Rule 2 and 3.

I sit down to calm down and clear the cobwebs out of my head as I always do in the morning (thus why I don't like being disturbed until an hour later), and she comes up with this (I wasn't really listening, so this is just what I remember): Something about "I know Uncle Eddie, and he won't like it if you get that [monitor]. He took 4 hours setting it up (wouldn't have taken as long if he'd listened to me), and everything was packed just as it had been bought. (FTR, the monitor is CLEARLY older than the comp.) I don't want to jeopardize my getting money from Aunt Connie (excuse me? JEOPARDIZE your MONEY? What about my already failing sight?), and your getting a car (what does the fraggin' monitor have to do with them buyin' me a car? The monitor was FREE!!! He already had it!)." And blah blah blah. Rule 1 and 3 again.

As you can imagine, my mood just got worse. I didn't say anything, I simply (and discreetly) had my mother call me and bail me out. Bad choice. While we were talknig on the phone, it was mentioned and my grandma called out asking what color it was. The fudge does THAT have to do with anything? The monitor was white (so is this one, BTW), and she saod something about "White on beige?" Erm, what? All I asked, thinking "color coordination", was "What does that have to do with anything?" She storms off and tells me to do whatever I wanted to do. :/ While I was waiting for mama, blah blah blah argument, argument, and she throws THIS little tidbit out: "I'm going to tell Aunt Connie what you and your mother was planning to do." (And I'm Southern, so it's "was" instead of "were". XD)

Like a f(iretr)uckin' toddler! "I'm telling on you!" You can bet your ass this comes up the next time we get into it. (FTR, I asked if it would be okay to accept the bigger one, and the response was this: "If you can see better, why not?". In your face, Nanny.)

I'm not one to act like a spoiled brat (because I'm not), but he sort of LIED about the size of the monitor. In no way did it measure out to be 17". That and maybe I did screw up, but not on a scale as big as my sister did. She now has 3 kids and moved back in with my mom for the 6th time. She refuses to act right, and wonders why she's still stuck at home. My fat ass cleaned up my act before I DID wind up in that mess. So uh, I think I *deserve* everything good that's coming to me, including a monitor upgrade. I don't ask for much (materially).

Oh, and for the record, my sisters mental health is almost perfect. The only thing wrong with her is she's a self-centered manipulative bitch who's known for compulsively lying. She can fix all that by changing her attitude. I have untreated Bi-Polarism, lived my entire life as a double-standard (Oh, it's okay for mama to have a kid at 17, but it's not okay for me. It's okay for Yajaira [29 with 3 kids and a husband, barely a job, no money] to go swimming with Brooke AFTER COMPLAINING OF A SEVERE HEADACHE SHE WAS *DYING* FROM [swimming makes headaches worse], but "Brooke gave me a Darvaset", and "You have cats to feed and a dog even though you have no life whatsoever and you didn't screw up even when you delberately tried to!!one1!pwnedn00b!!" [The pets are a true statement, but the rest is my take on it.]), and still do (My grandmother can give you her opinion and crackpot theories, but your opinion doesn't count, and your theories false, but somehow, hers are true).

Time to revisit my phrase from 11th grade: **** and suck a turkey turd. Now everyone sees why I'm so screwed up. >_>

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Well... that was an eyefull of text... I dont know what to say other than, I think your family conditions are über scheisse.



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Me too. And I know it was a long post, sorry. ^_^; I just got back from spending the night over there for 2 nights, and my mom gave one of my cats away. DX Just because she was pregnant! And you know what? She wouldn't have been if it weren't for ****heads cats. Both are male, it had to have been one of them because we have no other un-neutered males besides Chichi and Garfield, but they hate everyone, so it wasn't them. As a matter of fact Tiny had a baby, and Crybaby was the daddy. He had to have been, the kitten is solid orange, and the same color as he is. I MISS MAH RATCHET I'm keeping Luna, dammit. >_> Luna was Ratchet's kitten. *sniff* There's a hole... where my heart should be...

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aw i hated it when my dog had to go to a farm*sniff*but you're cats called luna too!

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